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Robert D.
Gustafson, Attorney At Law
COLORADO SPRINGS TRIAL LAWYER
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6538 Charter
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Colorado Springs, CO 80918-1335
Phone (719) 260-1002
Toll Free (800) 410-1002
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COLORADO SPRINGS LEGAL PARENTAGE |
WELCOME
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PRIVATE
ATTORNEY
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GOV'T CHILD
SUPPORT UNIT |
I welcome legal representation inquiries
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PATERNITY
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LEGAL PARENTAGE
COLORADO SPRINGS, COLORADO
El Paso County & Surrounding Colorado
Counties - Attorney Trade Area
Colorado Springs Attorney - Family Law Trial
Practice 25+ Years in Colorado State Courts
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COMMON
LAW MARRIAGE
common law marriage question in paternity |
FINDING MISSING
BIRTH PARENT |
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LEGAL TERMS AND
PRINCIPLES |
PROCEDURE
Filing
the Lawsuit
Process
Service
When
to File the Lawsuit
Statute
of Limitations Bar to Non-Paternity Defense
Parties
to the Lawsuit
Jurisdiction
and Venue
jurisdiction - state with
power to decide the lawsuit
venue - county in which lawsuit should be brought |
PRIOR
CONDUCT |
PATERNITY
DETERMINATION
Presumption
of Paternity
Genetic
Testing
Paternity
Decree
Child's
Lawful Surname |
COURT
PROCEEDINGS
Subsequent to Paternity
Determination |
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Mediation & Arbitration,
Conduct between Litigants, Children and Manipulation, Children - Attorney Appointments, Cohabitation with Significant Other,
Negotiations, Relationships and Sexual
Intercourse, Property Issues, "Palimony" or Maintenance / Support,
Estate Planning, Award of Attorney's Fees and Costs of Litigation
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CHILD
SUPPORT AND RELATED EXPENSES
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Health, Hospitalization and Medical Insurance, Deviation from Guideline Child Support
Amount, Expenses of Confinement -
Pregnancy, Pre-Natal Care and Birth &
Medical Expenses Between Birth and Lawsuit, Relation
Back - Retroactive Child Support, Statutory Interest, Tax Considerations and Exemptions |
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"PALIMONY"
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MAINTENANCE |
How
Do We Do This
Realistic Time Frames |
MEDIATION
ARBITRATION |
PROPERTY
AND RESIDENCE |
CHILD
CUSTODY & VISITATION
Allocation of Parental Responsibilities
Parenting Time |
OTHER
POTENTIAL LEGAL PROCEEDINGS
Divorce
from Present Spouse
Domestic
Abuse Civil Restraining Orders or
Domestic Violence Criminal Proceedings |
PATERNITY
SELECTED STATUTES & RULES
selected
statutes relevant to paternity cases
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COMMUNITY
RESOURCES & TREATMENT |
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RELATIONSHIP
RECOVERY
WORKSHOPS |
INDEPENDENT SERVICE PROVIDERS |
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ATTORNEY'S
FEES
AND COSTS |
DO I NEED AN ATTORNEY? |
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ATTORNEY
POLICIES
Cases Outside Colorado
Springs - Travel
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No Installment Payment
Legal Advice
Limited to Clients - Not General Public
Representation Now - Another Attorney or Self
Attorney
Representation & Declined Matters
Post Decree Representation
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FIRST CONSULTATION - NOTICE |
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Attorney
welcomes representation
inquiries however the
purpose is not to provide free legal advice to the general public.
Unless seeking to retain counsel, please do not email or call.
Attorney does not provide legal opinions, answers or information
in response to questions submitted from non-clients, and attorney
is not the phone company 411 center for telephone number
information. Given the scope of internet accessibility, I
can not be the free "Colorado answer man" and will politely
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Colorado Paternity - Colorado Springs - Legal Parentage - HLA & DNA genetic testing, blood tests, buccal swab, genetic testing laboratories, custody, allocation of parental responsibilities, parental responsibility, parenting time, visitation, child support orders, current child support, back support, relation back, arrears, arrearages, birth parent, birth father, putative father, alleged father, birth expenses, pre-natal expenses, birth certificate, child surname issues, name change, domestic abuse, criminal domestic violence charges, restraining order, parent locator tracing - skip tracing.
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What do I do if I can't find the
birth parent?
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attorney has
SKIP TRACING
capabilities in litigation cases or a
PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR
may be required
NOTE: attorney accesses databases only during litigation
preparation - not available to the general public |
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A client may save expense by verification of the birth parent's current contact
information before referring the matter to the attorney for litigation. If self help fails, search databases are available
to Gustafson Law Office which can not be accessed by the general public.
Refer to above skip tracing link. Government
child
support enforcement units establish paternity, enforce support & have access to
governmental tax databases such as welfare or worker's compensation to which employers
report quarterly or annually. Private counsel and private persons can not
access welfare or tax databases. If a
CSE
has worked a support enforcement case, contact the
CSE
for a potential address before retaining private counsel or ordering a
commercial (pay) search. Feel free to
bookmark this page in case the
CSE
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PATERNITY - LEGAL PARENTAGE
LEGAL
TERMS
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PRINCIPLES |
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Putative father
means alleged father. Custody is now allocation of parental responsibility. Visitation has been incorporated into the concept of parenting time. Expenses of
confinement include pre-natal care, delivery & birth, post natal care and
medications or other related expense. These are merely labels - don't let labels
confuse or scare you.
The definition of paternity is fatherhood. A
paternity lawsuit is brought to establish the legal parent-child relation
between a man and a child, or to establish the non-existence of the legal
relationship. A paternity lawsuit may be brought be either the mother or
the alleged father. A lawsuit for declaration of non-paternity may also be
brought by a birth mother, an alleged father, or by the presumptive father - the
birth mother's current or former husband.
Parent and child relationship
defined. As used in this article, "parent and child relationship"
means the legal relationship existing between a child and his natural or
adoptive parents incident to which the law confers or imposes rights,
privileges, duties, and obligations. "Parent and child relationship"
includes the mother and child relationship and the father and child
relationship. CRS
19-4-102
Relationship not dependent on
marriage. The parent and child relationship extends equally to every child and
to every parent, regardless of the marital status of the parents. CRS
19-4-103
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PATERNITY - LEGAL PARENTAGE
CHILDREN BORN AS A RESULT
OF AN
EXTRA-MARITAL AFFAIR |
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INFIDELITY BY HUSBAND |
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If during the marriage husband fathered a child by a woman not his wife, the
birth mother may bring a paternity action against him. Marriage does
not create immunity from parental responsibility for children conceived
outside the marriage, nor does it protect a man from entry and enforcement
of a child support order. Financial responsibility exists. |
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In such circumstance, publishing attorney has been contacted by multiple
married women indicating their family was barely making ends meet as is and
the family wouldn't be able to pay the bills when a support order entered
against her husband. Although not what a woman wishes to hear, the
wife has the alternative of making financial adjustments or filing for
divorce and seeking her own order for
child support
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INFIDELITY BY WIFE |
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Husband is the presumptive father of a child born during the marriage or
born within within 300 days after termination of the marriage. CRS
19-4-105(1) Other statutory criteria can place husband in the position
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If husband is not the birth father of a child conceived by wife during the
marriage, he may choose to remain married, yet bring a lawsuit for in
juvenile court case for declaration of non-paternity. |
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If husband is not the birth father of a child conceived by wife during the
marriage or if husband is otherwise the presumptive but not birth father of
a child and either party files for
divorce, husband may seek a declaration of non-paternity
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A statute of limitations exists. CRS 19-4-107(1)(b) |
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Lawsuit for declaration
of non-paternity must be brought by a presumptive father within a
reasonable time after obtaining knowledge of relevant facts but in no
event later than five (5) years after the child's birth. |
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Presumption of lawful parentage and statute of limitations favor
legitimizing children, however the presumption is rebuttable with competent,
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applicable to your family, consult legal counsel. Your attorney will
address the legal issues without moral judgment. |
You need not and will not be allowed
to tell the court the "bad things" the other party has done, such as
the father's insensitive lack of appearance at the hospital when the child was
born. Under Colorado law, fault is not admissible except in limited
circumstances where conduct is relevant to well-being of a child or regarding
domestic abuse restraining order matters.
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FILING THE LAWSUIT
The birth mother, the putative father, or the
State of Colorado may commence either a paternity lawsuit to establish the legal
relation between father and child, or may commence a lawsuit for a Declaration
of Non-Paternity - a court order establishing that no legal parent-child
relationship exists. If the legal relation is found and ordered, the court will
then address the issues of allocation of parental responsibilities, parenting
time and child support.
The person who files the lawsuit is called the
Petitioner. The petition and a summons will be served upon the person who is
being sued - he or she is called the Respondent. The summons merely tells the
Respondent he or she is being sued to determine parentage, and if established,
orders will enter regarding allocation of parental responsibilities, parenting
time and child support. Paternity cases are filed in juvenile court;
e-Filing is not available.
Once a response has been filed, the case may not
be dismissed (thrown out) unless both agree. If both agree, the case may be
dismissed at any time until the final orders have been entered. If one party
wants an order regarding parentage, the other can not stop it.
I have provided representation in cases where a birth mother files a paternity
case against a putative father because she seeks child support, however the
father has admitted paternity and requested that he be primarily responsible
for decision making and be the primary caretaking parent. See allocation
of parental responsibility and parenting time below. In such a
circumstance, the birth mother can not unilaterally change her mind, say the
money is not that important and dismiss the case.
Similarly, I have provided representation in cases where a putative father
files a paternity case for declaration of paternity against a birth mother as
next friend and mother of a child because he wishes to be involved in the
child's life and is tired of the visitation denial, hassles or limitations
imposed by the mother. However, when the financial realities of
confinement expenses, past and current child support, health insurance and
income assignment come to bear, the putative father can not unilaterally
change his mind, say visitation schedule is ok, let's maintain the status quo
and dismiss the case.
Prior to commencing the lawsuit, a litigant should be certain he / she
actually desires final orders pertaining to all issues. As the old
saying goes, be careful what you ask for - you may get it.
PROCESS SERVICE
The petition and a summons will be served upon
the other parent. The summons merely tells the other parent he or she is being sued
regarding paternity. Service of process means that
the papers will be handed to the Respondent, or perhaps published in the
newspaper under limited circumstances. Due process (fairness)
requires you to inform the other parent that you are requesting an order
regarding paternity, and the issues of parental responsibilities allocation,
parenting time and child support. On an average, service of
process costs between $35 and $50, but can vary, especially
if the Respondent is out of state. If the
Respondent is willing to sign a paper saying he or she received the legal
documents, you can use the mail and there is no charge for service of process.
That is called waiver and acceptance of service of process. Persons being sued
usually don't sign; I don’t recommend attempting waiver of service. For
information regarding process servers, refer to
process
service.
WHEN TO FILE THE LAWSUIT
Lawsuit to establish
paternity may be brought at any time until the child attains majority (18th
birthday). CRS
19-4-107(1)(a). CRS
19-4-108
A paternity lawsuit may be brought during
pregnancy, People in Interest of Unborn Child v. Estergard, 169 Colo. 445, 457
P.2d 698 (1969). If the putative father disputes paternity, orders can not be
entered until live birth. The following reasons come to mind to file before
birth:
Ease of service of process - the putative
father is local and may subsequently move out of state or be difficult to
locate.
If parentage genetic testing has been ordered,
the baby's blood may be drawn at birth from the umbilical cord. This is less
intrusive to the child. Also, 5 cc of blood is required for testing - this may
delay the lawsuit until the child is 6+ months of age. I'll not forget
the wrath of screaming baby's mother in 1981 where multiple attempts to draw
blood from veins in both arms were unsuccessful and femoral draw was necessary.
Now, a DNA specimen can be obtained by buccal swab - essentially knocking a few
cells from the inside of the cheek by q-tip swab.
STATUTE OF LIMITATIONS
BAR TO DEFENSE OF NON-PATERNITY
If the presumptive father fails to bring an action to declare the
non-existence of the parent-child relation within 5 years from the date of the
child's birth, he is thereafter barred from the defense of non-parentage. This
is a 5 year statute of limitations. CRS
19-4-107(1)(b).
PARTIES TO THE LAWSUIT
The birth mother and putative father are indispensable parties. If the birth mother was married at the time of
conception, as the presumptive father, he must also be joined as a party. Tell your attorney if either
alleges a different man is the birth father of a child. Any man with whom the
birth mother had sexual intercourse during the period relevant to conception
should be joined as a party to the action and may be required to submit to genetic testing.
Tell your attorney if welfare has been received at any time since birth of the
child. Failure to provide notice to the local governmental
Child
Support Enforcement Unit (CSE) could later result in welfare fraud
criminal charges if the State is not made a party or given lawful notice of the
paternity suit.
JURISDICTION
AND VENUE
Jurisdiction means the power of the Colorado
Juvenile Courts to hear and decide the case. Venue is the location (county) in
which the lawsuit will be heard.
Residency
One parent must
physically reside in Colorado. No domicile requirement is
contained in the parentage statutes. Domicile is not the same as simply living
here; a person acquires legal residency by having significant contacts with the
state. You must intend to permanently reside here, or return here after your
travels are done. Some of the domiciliary indicators are: Colorado driver's
license, Colorado automobile registration, paying Colorado state income taxes,
registration to vote in Colorado, banking in Colorado, and home ownership or
having executed a lease. For domicile, military personnel must claim Colorado
as their home of record; an affidavit of residency is available at any
military finance office,
Form
DD-2058.
Since only physical residence is required,
not domicile, a paternity lawsuit can be initiated on behalf of a
person physically residing in Colorado, but claiming another state as legal
residence. That most common circumstance would be military families.
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courts have entered final decrees of paternity or declarations of
non-paternity for my clients in the military
claiming another state as their legal residence.
Jurisdiction may be acquired over any
Respondent who is resident of or personally served in Colorado.
Venue is in the county in which the child or
Respondent resides or in which Respondent receives personal service. CRS
19-4-109
If Respondent is physically present in
Colorado, a paternity order (foreign decree) from another state can be
registered in Colorado. It will then be given full force and effect. and treated
as a court order of this state. CRS
19-4-109(1.5)
If the Respondent is a resident of another state
and can not be personally served in Colorado, and if the sexual
intercourse occurred in Colorado which resulted in conception of the child, Colorado
courts have personal jurisdiction under the "long arm statute." CRS
19-4-109(2). In this event, since Respondent is neither a Colorado resident nor
physically present for process service, venue would lie in the child's county of
residence (usually living with Petitioner).
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PATERNITY
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A paternity case is tried to the
court; there is no right to trial by jury for this type of case in
Colorado. CRS 19-4-128
Before the court may address the issues parental
responsibilities allocation, parenting time and child support, legal parentage
must be established. This may be accomplished by admission of paternity by the
putative father, or by genetic testing and other independent testimony or
evidence. CRS
19-4-113
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burden of proof to establish paternity is by a preponderance of proof required,
not by clear and convincing evidence. McCoy v. People in Interest of Minor
Child, 165 Colo. 407, 439 P.2d 347 (1968). A prima facie case is
established for paternity by petitioner's testimony of acts of intercourse with respondent and her pregnancy following and birth of the child within the permissible period
- this evidence is sufficient to require submission of the issues to a jury. Medina v.
Gonzales, 141 Colo. 118, 347 P.2d 138 (1959).
PRESUMPTION OF PATERNITY
A rebuttable presumption is created under
certain factual circumstances, such as birth during or within 300 days of
marriage termination, written acknowledgment of paternity filed with the court,
consensual placement on the birth certificate, written voluntary promise to pay
child support, genetic testing with 97% or higher probability of parentage. CRS
19-4-105
The presumption may be rebutted in a paternity
lawsuit by clear and convincing evidence. CRS
19-4-105
GENETIC TESTING
Until HLA procedures developed
at the War Memorial Blood Bank in Minneapolis, MN under Herbert Poleski in the
late 1970's, science had not progressed to the point where blood testing could
establish parentage. Previously blood types were used to exclude the possibility
of parentage, but not to establish.
Each party has the right to genetic testing - HLA
and / or DNA. CRS
19-4-112, CRS
13-25-126 and C.R.Civ.P.
35(a). A hearing is held on the issue, however courts are inclined to order
genetic tests because the scientific evidence is highly relevant. If either party refuses to submit to genetic
testing, the court will likely enter a final ruling on the issue of paternity
adverse to the refusing party. This makes it simple.
If mom refuses genetic testing - he's not the
dad.
If putative dad refuses genetic testing - he is
the legal dad.
In years gone by only blood could be tested.
Today testing is done on blood or a buccal swab which is essentially a q-tip run
across the inside of the mouth cheek. This knocks off cells which are
subsequently tested for genetics.
Human leukocyte antigen
(HLA) test is admissible on issue of paternity because it is capable of establishing either that an individual could not be the father of a certain child or that the probability that he is the father exceeds ninety percent.
E.M.F. v. N.N., 717 P.2d 961 (Colo. App. 1985). A husband, who is the presumed father,
may be ordered to submit to blood tests. People in Interest of M.P.R., 723 P.2d 743 (Colo. App. 1986).
If genetic
testing returns 97% or higher probability of parentage, a presumption of
paternity is established. That presumption may be rebutted in a paternity
lawsuit by clear and convincing evidence. CRS
19-4-105. An example of such
evidence would be a vasectomy or other medical evidence of sterilization.
For information regarding DNA Laboratories which conduct paternity testing,
refer to
DNA
laboratories - paternity testing.
PATERNITY DECREE
When genetic test results are received, usually
paternity is admitted if test results show the putative father is the birth
father. If not, trial is held at which time the genetic test
results are admitted into evidence along with other facts such as intercourse
between the parties, mother's intercourse with other men, population statistics,
prior oral admissions of either party, physical appearance of the child,
cards-gifts-letters, prior support payments, etc. If the genetic test
results reflect that the putative father is not the birth father, decree of
non-paternity enters. Attorney's fees and costs may be awarded at final
orders hearing.
Child's Surname. Issue periodically arises regarding the child's
lawful surname - the mother may desire
the child to have her last name and the father requests the child's last name be
changed to his. That can be a dispute. Cases in various states are
split on the issue. Colorado has ruled in multiple cases; one is cited
below.
S.F.E., In Interest of T.I.E., 981 P.2d 642 (Colo. App.
1998)
CRS 19-4-116(3) has been
interpreted as a grant of broad authority that includes ordering a name change
if it is in the child's best interests. D.K.W. v. J.L.B., 807 P.2d 1222
(Colo. App. 1990).
In considering a request for a
name change, the court should consider the length of time the child has used
the surname, the potential impact of the requested name change on the child's
relationship with each parent, the child's preference, and any misconduct by a
parent which would justify a name change. D.K.W. v. J.L.B., supra
(following Hamman v. County Court, 753 P.2d 743 (Colo. 1988) and In
re Marriage of Nguyen, 684 P.2d 258 (Colo. App. 1983), cert. denied, 469
U.S. 1108, 105 S.Ct. 785, 83 L.Ed.2d 779 (1985), both of which were decided
under other statutory provisions and common law).
In addition, the court in a
paternity action must also consider the motivation of the parties, the
identification of the child as part of a family unit, the embarrassment,
discomfort, or inconvenience that may result if the child's surname differs
from that of the custodial parent, and the possibility that a different name
may cause insecurity or lack of identity. Whether a requested name change is
in the best interests of a minor child is a factual determination for the
trial court. D.K.W. v. J.L.B., supra.
Once
paternity has been established by decree and order has entered regarding the
child's name:
a. Counsel will then
forward a report of paternity and a certified copy of the paternity decree to the
Department of Health -
Vital Records in the state of the child's birth. The
original birth certificate is sealed, and a new birth certificate is prepared
reflecting the birth parents as the lawful parents and only parents
identified thereon.
b. The court then addresses the issues of parental
responsibilities allocation, parenting time and child support.
c. Birth certificate cost
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Either party
may request a temporary orders hearing, at which time the judge will allocate
parental responsibility and enter orders regarding parenting time and child
support. That
hearing may be held about 2-4 weeks after filing (before paternity
determination), but usually is held shortly after paternity decree enters.
Thereafter, if the
parties are unable to reach settlement agreement, frequently called a paternity
agreement, the case is set for contested final orders hearing.
The attorney will try to settle your case. If
agreements can be reached with the other parent, the attorney will prepare a
detailed written agreement. That agreement can generally be completed rapidly
and will become part of the
final decree (order). Paternity has no waiting
period as is required in divorce cases. If the parties are unable to agree,
finalizing the case may take as
long as 1 - 2 years.
If the parents can not agree, the parties may
undergo evaluations regarding allocation of parental responsibilities and
parenting time, psychological evaluations and mediation. Each
may be required to produce copies of billings, canceled checks, bank statements,
pension or other financial documents pertaining to expenses of confinement and
evidence of income and expenditures as relevant to child support. Each must file
a detailed financial affidavit and a disclosure certificate must be filed with the
court reflecting that he / she has provided numerous financial documents to the
opposing party. It is possible that depositions will be taken. That means
questioning under oath in front of a court reporter who records all statements.
Interrogatories may also be propounded. Interrogatories are written questions which
must be answered in writing under oath. In the discovery phase of the case,
each party has the opportunity to learn almost anything you want
to know to prepare his / her case. If paternity has not yet been ordered, inquiry may be made into sexual history relevant
to conception. The days of Perry Mason and surprises in court are gone.
Discovery can be quite expensive - cost can be reduced if each
parent is open and voluntarily exchanges financial documents.
If the parties can't settle and must set court hearings,
mediation
may be required before
setting a contested final hearing. Refer to the link for more
information. Before temporary or final orders
hearings, most judges require a pre-trial statement; a written statement which
tells the court of agreements, contested matters, facts and law, parenting plan
and other disposition requested by each party. Your attorney may attend a
pre-trial or status conference with the judge at which time each attorney
advises the
judge what is agreed, what issues are in dispute, and what the court fight will
be about. Some judges / magistrates do not allow the litigants in their office during
a pre-trial conference, others require the parties to be present.
After final hearing, if a party does not like the
judge's decision the party must request review by the District Court or appeal
to the Court of Appeals. Under some circumstances, a party may file a
motion for recusal of the Court or for a new trial, but generally a party can not
state you do not like the ruling and ask for a new judge or ruling.
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GENERAL
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Synopsis
How Do We Accomplish a Paternity Case?
Realistic Time Frames
"I want what I want, I want it all
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The legal system hasn't achieved the fast food market level of efficiency and
probably never will. Probably never should. Prospective clients want
to know how long will it take to commence a paternity case and how long the process
will take.
There are three primary focal points in paternity cases:
1. Is the putative (alleged)
father the birth father. This is determined primarily through laboratory
testing if the parties dispute the fact.
2. Finances. The two most important documentary aspects of
paternity action financial computations are current child support and
arrearages. Each parent must arrive at settlement or
litigation theory (pre-trial statement & brief) or the separation agreement
(terms to be incorporated into the final decree if court fight can be
avoided). Comprehensible and concise computations are required to
understand family finances and to draft a realistic settlement or litigation
proposal.
3. What to do with
respect to the children.
A lawyer can not offer advice regarding support or allocation of parental
responsibilities and parenting time until he or she has an understanding of the family's finances, and family dynamics.
That's common sense. Financial disclosure rules require an
in-depth look at the family's financial circumstances at the time of
filing. A parenting plan must also be
submitted. Put another way, at the time of filing you must inform the
court of the family circumstances and your proposal for relief - at least on an
interim basis between establishing legal parentage and until final orders
hearing.
I have a fact sheet located
within my primary website to aid in understanding of family finances and dynamics and
case preparation. I ask the client to provide realistic valuation numbers
regarding income and expenses, assets and liabilities and to be thorough in
describing family circumstances. I ask that the client invest time
locating, organizing, copying and providing relevant documents at the time I am retained. Income is determined from
paystubs, LES or projected income capability. Income and expense numbers
will be obtained - mutual disclosure is easier on the pocket book than
discovery fights and obtaining income verification via subpoena.
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I use professional software to prepare child
support guideline computations and
child support arrearage computations. I have drafted an
interactive electronic spreadsheet to compute income and expenses for
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The spreadsheet provides a detailed look at each party's income and
projected expenses, impact of child support and debtservice. Budgeted
discretionary income (positive cash flow) or budgeted deficit spending
(negative cash flow) will be identified for each party. Proposal revisions
can be made to achieve a
projected budget which is workable for both parties; budget and
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In my practice, the professional child support guideline computation
software, arrearage software and electronic spreadsheet will be utilized to
ascertain family finances and settlement or trial posture regarding
current and relation back or arrearage child support. To facilitate planning & conference during initial case preparation,
support guideline and arrearage computations as well as spreadsheet computation draft .pdf file is emailed to the client.
Given the financial scrutiny, initial settlement proposal or pre-trial statement should be well within the ballpark of
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Seemingly complicated issues can be reduced to math, however human
interpretation and perhaps oral argument in court remain. The
professional child support software and electronic spreadsheet computations
are understandable and brutally
frank. I find
that when finances and support obligations are clear to all parties, possibility of reasonable
settlement is enhanced. Using a rational mind, provisions which
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You feel the need for speed -
how fast?
From the time attorney receives completed intake sheets and financial
documentation, the paternity case can usually be prepared within 1 - 2 weeks.
If legal parentage does not appear to be contested, I
prefer to submit a paternity agreement (settlement proposal) to the opposing
party at or near the time of filing the petition or response if possible. Settlement
proposal is seldom accepted as first drafted, but changes shouldn't be
significant if client has been realistic and has communicated with the other
parent or is
aware of the opposing parent's goals. Being aware of the other parent's position doesn't mean you agree; compromise or
litigation will likely be required. Initial financial scrutiny &
settlement proposal method creates additional work for counsel and parties on
the front end, but in this fashion we quickly determine whether settlement is a
viable option or trial will be required. If legal parentage laboratory
testing is not needed and if you and the other parent can be objective, figure about 3 - 4 weeks of hard
work to achieve a final resolution, then setting for an uncontested final
hearing. More fees are incurred at the outset than if the case were commenced with a
simple summons and petition, but if the case can settle it will ultimately
reduce attorney's fees and costs in the final analysis. It also reduces
headaches, heartaches, anxiety and stress if the case drags out. If settled,
paternity decree can usually be taken in less than 4 months from
the time of filing and service of process.
That's not "on-demand" or fast food mentality, but not a significant
period if you and the other parent can be objective, realistic and reasonable.
If it's a court fight,
plan to become quite patient.
Remember - the court's polestars will be the best interests of the children and
fundamental fairness with respect to support. If you
enter into court fights, final outcome will likely be somewhere in the same
ballpark of reason we are seeking in the initial analysis. Use good
judgment when contemplating your initial "wish list" or revisions
thereto.
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Courtesy
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1. Do not fight with the opposing parent,
physically or orally. You will gain nothing, except to make your
paternity case much
more difficult or incur criminal charges.
2. You must disconnect the
buttons which have caused you emotional distress in the past. No one knows
better how to press your buttons than a former intimate partner. You have commenced or are
contemplating a paternity lawsuit - expect the opposing parent to play your buttons with more
fervor than the "Phantom of the Opera." Recognize your
former partner is jabbing your
all too familiar emotional sore spots due to his or her own negative
emotions. Do not give feedback; the jabs can be temporary if you don't feed
the fight. And... don't you become a concert pianist on the buttons.
3. You make the best
decisions when you are rational and logical; no one can exercise clear
judgment when we are over-emotional. Decisions you will face in your
paternity action
and in normal communications with the opposing parent are some of the most important
you may ever encounter with long term consequences. Resolve your emotions in
another forum; not in your litigation or dealings with the other parent.
4. You have business to conduct
with ex-partner; treat the paternity as such. Establish your new
relationship starting now. Give him or her the courtesy, dignity and
respect you would give a stranger on the street. Require the same be given
you in return.
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1. Do not let children hear
any derogatory or bad statements about their other parent, whether from you, family
or friends. Vent your emotions outside the presence of your children.
Your paternity action will create a degree of trauma for them; do not increase that trauma
or cause emotional distress to your children needlessly. This office will
not represent you if you manipulate or unfairly make the children pawns.
2. The below listed
complaints are frequently heard by attorneys. In El Paso County, an order to
parents was likely entered when you filed your case. If the opposing
parent is
engaging in any of the following behaviors, refer to that Order. You will
likely be able to stop this manipulation by contempt of court (jail)
proceedings.
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a. Children must choose
between the two of you.
b. Attempting to turn the
children against you by discussing your shortcomings, i.e.: denigrating,
demeaning or making derogatory statements about you or permitting family
or friends to do so in the presence of the children.
c. Failure to continue
with scheduled activities or school work during parenting time - time
being used as a vacation from responsibilities for the children.
d. Children being involved
in setting, negotiating or mediating parenting time.
e. Children being
questioned regarding your activities, new assets, expenditures or
romances.
f. Other parent or
his / her significant
other using illicit drugs during child care times.
g. Children being forced
to refer to step-parent or girlfriend / boyfriend as "mom" or
"dad."
h. Children being taken to
a counselor or therapist without first obtaining the agreement of the
residential parent.
i. Other parent secreting
or not informing you of his / her current address and phone.
j. Discussion of the
paternity case or issues of the case with your children, whether parental
responsibility, parenting time, child support or other financial issues.
k. Children being shown
documents related to the case.
l. Children being brought
to court.
m. "No show" or
"late show" at agreed times for parenting time exchange.
n. Spouse arguing with you
at exchange for parenting time.
o. Step-parent or
boyfriend / girlfriend being part of the transportation or child-care
process during parenting time... significant other sticking nose into your
business
p. Lack of adequate
clothing for parenting time or being returned in poor condition.
q. Driving with the
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3. Children, even very young,
may likely attempt to manipulate the parents. Separation
or litigation is a particularly
fruitful time given the guilt most parents are experiencing... a child's
radar senses this. Agree with the other parent that if either hears a disturbing
report, you will call to the other to inquire. Agree neither will fly off
the handle due to such an inquiry - a degree of unity remains necessary.
Keep rules & discipline consistent. Understand children may attempt to
manipulate, distort or extort. No-way... not my children... right.
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Children - Attorney
Appointments |
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I ask that children not be brought to the office unless
requested by the attorney. Family law matters are sensitive and not
appropriate for children; they may understand more than we expect. Also, many
children have short attention spans. Matters to be discussed will be of
importance to you; the distraction of caring for a child will likely decrease
the productivity of our time together. Please make arrangements for daycare.
If care is not possible, I work from my home and toys are available. It's
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Cohabitation with
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Legally, you may cohabitate (live with)
the opposing parent at all during the paternity action,
including through the date final orders are entered. In practicality, it
does not work.
1. Living together will
increase the emotional tension between you and the other parent.
2. Domestic violence criminal
charges may be brought on allegation alone with no supporting evidence.
Hello gray-bar hotel, no room service 'eh? Refer to the any of the below
links for additional information regarding potential domestic
violence criminal charges or restraining orders. Refer to the below
links for additional information.
a.
DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE Information - information pertaining to defense of
domestic violence charges
b.
DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE Criminal Charges - frequently charged domestic violence
crimes
c.
DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE Sentencing Summary
d.
CIVIL DOMESTIC ABUSE RESTRAINING ORDERS
3. One of you must move out,
or plan on disagreements. To that end, the person who moves out will need
at least first month's rent plus security deposit, maybe last month's
rent, staple groceries, adequate furniture / household goods and
transportation. Plan on the expense, regardless of who actually moves.
This applies even if your partner has been living in your home which you own
separately.
Financial arrangements for multiple residences are nominal in relation to
criminal defense or restraining order defense, not to mention long term
consequences of the paper trail left by such an allegation.
Throwing out your ex-partner with no money and nowhere to go is not wonderful,
nor will it favorably impress a juvenile magistrate. Use common sense - don't make
or tolerate that demand or threat.
4. In paternity cases, the parties
have usually separated long ago or perhaps never cohabitated. It has been my
experience that if the parties are cohabitating when seeking counsel, they are
attempting to establish a lawful family unit for purpose of school, insurance,
military benefits or some other legitimate purpose. If however the parties
are in dispute, cohabitation during the pendency of the paternity lawsuit is as
bad an idea as in divorce cases.
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Negotiations |
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1. Conduct all negotiations
with the opposing parent in a park or restaurant which is a public setting but
offers a degree of privacy. Never discuss an emotional issue in the privacy
of your home or a totally secluded area. Argument, possible assault or
injury, criminal charges and injunction will be avoided.
2. If you and the opposing parent can
not reach agreements in any particular discussion, recognize that you will
not be able to agree and discuss the matter in 2 or 3 days when emotions
cool down. Do not continue to press a matter when you know you can't agree.
A court hearing may be necessary; courts decide fairly. Use court hearings
for legitimate disagreement matters and avoid court battles over issues
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Relationships and Sexual
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Relationships and sexual conduct may not be admitted in court as
evidence except under limited circumstances as pertains to court dispute
regarding children. However, if the opposing parent learns of it or you bring a member of
the opposite sex near the ex-partner, negative emotions will result (major
understatement). That will likely translate to needless court fights and higher
attorney fees for each of you. Be discrete, and do
not live with a member of the opposite sex while your case is pending
1. Children experience some
degree of trauma due to separation. Remember, they did not participate in
the decision to split the family unit. Do not expose children to friends of
the opposite sex until the relationship is stable, and then introduce them
gradually with a picnic, movie or some easy outing.
2. Naturally, children should
not be exposed to sex. Nor should they be left with a babysitter for
frequent or extended periods, nor late night while you party or enjoy
recreational activities. These facts are admissible; use common sense.
3. Children, particularly young,
will report the opposing parent's activities to you and will report yours to your
former partner - pipeline. Use common sense in establishing new
relationships.
4. As with cohabitation above, this concept must be tempered in
paternity cases. The parties have usually separated long ago or never
cohabitated. Each may have established separate romantic relationships and
have "moved on." However, jealousy rears it's ugly green
head and can translate into court fights when there is no other logical reason
for the dispute. Additionally, it is common in paternity cases for the
other parent to resent the new "significant other" and in particular
object to the other's participation in visitation pick up or drop off or in
negotiations between the parties. The "significant other" will
be a part of the child's life, but they have no place in negotiations,
visitation pick up or drop off or in the litigation. Keep contact between
the other parent and your current "significant other" non-existent or to a
minimum during litigation.
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1. In paternity cases, it would not be uncommon for a new legal father to forget to
amend his life insurance or estate planning. Whether you make specific
provision for the new legal child or exclude from the will, the circumstances
have changed and provisions should be made by each parent to reflect present
desires.
2. Review
wills, trusts or life insurance policies. You may need to amend beneficiaries or your entire estate plan. You may also
wish to review your needs for powers of attorney, child guardianship and
conservatorship, a medical or surgical treatment declaration (life support) or
anatomical gift declaration. I do not practice probate or estate planning;
contact your estate planning attorney.
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In paternity cases, the relevant statute is CRS 19-4-117, which is similar to
divorce law - CRS 14-10-119. The court may order payment
toward
attorney's fees as well as expert witness fees, guardian ad litem or special
advocate, costs of genetic testing or other litigation costs. Attorney's
fees and litigation costs may be awarded for periods prior to commencement of
the proceedings and subsequent to judgment.
Award or denial of attorney's fees and costs of litigation is in the nature of
support. Award is not to be used as a punitive action. The Court
must consider award or denial in light of the income and property of the parties in relation to one
another, and must make findings as to the amount and reasonableness
thereof. Under some circumstances, a court may consider the actions of one
party which directly increase the costs of litigation.
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"Nudie
Pics, " "Explicit
Videos" or
Sex Pics"
If the parties created explicit
images during the relation, refer to link for information
If relevant, it's worth the time to read about "Nudie
Pics"
Has this really become a legal problem for multiple former
clients? yes
This issue can result in
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New
Relationships
relevant only if this is a recent breakup
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Mental health professionals will likely advise you that it takes
approximately two years after the breakup of a significant relationship to conclude the grief or healing process; I
suspect closer to 9 months - a year & a half. Books are available from
the public library, just as
counseling
and divorce recovery workshops are available.
It doesn't lessen your loss, but knowledge can aid understanding of the feelings
you are undergoing. I call it: "I'm crazier than a loon, but if I
wasn't crazy, I really would be crazy." A mental health professional
referred to that cycle as "feeling and acting normally in an abnormal
circumstance." I have no expertise in the area; they do. They
use nicer phrases. Temptation will be strong and will abound - be careful
about entering into a significant relationship before you have concluded the
grief process from this loss. You may experience
guilt that the relationship didn't work out, and that you are not a whole
person. Find a way to recognize yourself as a whole person - others
do. The end of anything is always the beginning of something new.
Consider parting ways with your former mate to be an opportunity to
redefine your perception of yourself.
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PATERNITY - LEGAL PARENTAGE
CHILD SUPPORT
AND RELATED EXPENSES
CRS
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Hundreds or perhaps thousands of dollars may be at issue regarding any aspect of
child support - any aspect may become a contest in any case. Naturally,
former litigants have taken support issues on appeal, and caselaw exists.
Child
support will be ordered by the court. The divorce child support statute
is
CRS 14-10-115, which sets forth criteria for establishing child support.
The relevant paternity child support statutes are
CRS 19-4-116 and CRS 19-4-117. From the statute have sprung child support guidelines and computation
forms and tables (like tax forms) which will be used in setting child support,
however the court may order a different amount if necessary to set a fair
support figure. The court will look at the ability of each parent to support
and the needs of the children, including daycare expenses, health,
hospitalization and medical insurance and deductible or non-covered medical
expenses, continuing medical
expenses, private
school tuition if agreed or court ordered, post-secondary education or other
financial circumstances relevant to your children. Child support is not
taxable income or deductible. Issues to be addressed are deviation from
guideline child support amount, relation back - retroactive child support,
statutory interest, tax considerations and exemptions
Refer to my primary website:
1.
Hardcopy
Legal Forms - local access to forms
2.
Colorado Supreme Court
Legal Forms
- available by internet download
3.
Colorado
Supreme Court Child Support Guideline Computation Worksheets - on-line
instructions & downloads or
4.
Child
Support and Spousal Maintenance Software (commercial site - cost
involved & computer installation required)
5.
Military and
Civil Service Defense Employee Pay and Benefits - links to military and civil
service defense employee pay and benefits. This information is beneficial when an LES is not available to the spouse.
6.
Colorado Revised Statutes (CRS) are available in
the
local law library
supported by the
El
Paso County Bar Association - you may ask a librarian for
assistance in locating statute books.
Up to 93 overnights, no support deduction is made for the obligation of the
residential parent's child support obligation to the other parent. This
computation is labeled Worksheet A - Child Support Obligation.
Commencing at 93
overnights with the other parent, deduction is made for the obligation of
the residential parent's child support obligation to the other parent.
This
guideline computation is labeled Worksheet B - Child support Obligation -
Shared Time. Depending on the actual contribution circumstances, even with
93 or more overnights, the court may use Worksheet A.
If the parties have
multiple children and one or more primarily reside with one parent while one
or more children primarily reside with the other parent, two child support
guidelines are calculated for the child(ren) with each respective parent,
then set off to determine the net support owed by one parent to the other.
Child support guideline
computation worksheet labels do not affect the decision making process or
scheduled overnights; they are merely mathematical computations.
When computing the amount of child support,
after born children not children of both parties will not be taken into consideration.
In later modifications, that means if
either party has children born of a another relation subsequent to the child who is the subject of the support proceeding, no consideration will be given to the expense of raising or
supporting those children, whether born in lawful wedlock or not. CRS
14-10-115(7)(d.5)(1)
Receipt of public
assistance benefits must be reported at the time of filing the petition.
CRS
14-10-107.7 If public assistance is being received at present,
it is important to obtain a support order as quickly as possible to limit
potential
liability of the obligor spouse. If welfare has been received for a
child, notice must be given to and it is likely the local governmental
Child
Support Enforcement Unit (CSE) will enter as a party in the case
seeking reimbursement for current or past welfare expenditures.
It is illegal to agree the "non-custodial" parent will not see the children in return for no payment of
support. Do not attempt to pass this type of agreement by the court.
Contest may arise regarding issues such as reasonableness of daycare,
unemployment or underemployment and imputed income, tax exemption, health
insurance and on-going medical deductible or non-covered expenses. Medical
expenses can include cosmetic orthodontia, medically necessary orthodontia,
eye-care, dental treatment, and any uninsured single or chronic health
problem. Significant amounts of money can be involved.
Current child support may be
enforced by income assignment. With this remedy, the obligor's employer deducts
child support or spousal maintenance from the obligor's paycheck each payday and
sends direct to the District Court Registry Fund or the statewide
Family
Support Registry. This assures current
payment so long as the obligor remains employed. If one party requests an
income assignment, it must be automatically granted
pursuant to statute. CRS14-14-111.5(2)(f) The fund utilized
depends upon the type of support (child support or spousal maintenance) and
whether support is ordered in a divorce case or paternity case.
Health, Hospitalization and Medical Insurance
Insurance Required. In child support orders issued pursuant to the
divorce child support statute (CRS 14-10-115) the court is required to provide
for the child(ren)'s current and future medical needs by ordering either parent
or both parents to initiate medical or medical and dental insurance coverage for
the child or children through currently effective medical or medical and dental
insurance policies held by the parent or parents, purchase medical or medical
and dental insurance for the child or children, or provide the child or children
with current and future medical needs through some other manner. At the same
time, the court is required to order payment of medical insurance or medical and
dental insurance deductibles and co-payments. Payment of a premium to provide
health insurance coverage on behalf of the children subject to the order is to
be added to the basic child support obligation and shall be divided between the
parents in proportion to their adjusted gross income.
Insurance Cost Excessive - Requirement Abated. Where the application of the premium payment on the child support guidelines results in a child support order of fifty dollars or less or the premium payment is twenty percent or more of the parent's gross income, the court or delegate child support enforcement unit may elect not to require the parent to include the child or children on an existing policy or to purchase insurance.
The parent shall, however, be required to provide insurance when it does become available at a reasonable cost.
Insurance Assignment.
CRS 14-14-112 requires that in all orders which direct the obligor to provide health insurance for any child, the court shall include a provision directing the obligor's employer to enroll such child in the health insurance plan and to deduct from the wages due the obligor an amount sufficient to provide for premiums for health insurance when such insurance is offered by the
employer.
19-4-116(5) imbues the court in a paternity action with the authority to require
a party to purchase or maintain a medical insurance policy to provide for the
current and future medical needs of the child. S.F.E., In Interest of
T.I.E., 981 P.2d 642, 647 (Colo. App. 1998). Similar to child support, where a party has been ordered to provide health insurance,
assignment may similarly be entered. CRS14-14-112(1). However, if
insurance is ordered the statute makes health insurance assignment mandatory.
Expenses of Confinement
Pregnancy, Pre-Natal Care and Birth
and
Medical Expenses Between Birth and Lawsuit
Expenses of confinement, pre-natal care and birth, and uninsured medical or
health care expenses subsequent to birth but prior to legal proceedings may also
become contested issues. Medical expenses can include cosmetic
orthodontia, medically necessary orthodontia, eye-care, dental treatment, and any uninsured
single or chronic health problem. Significant amounts of money can again
be involved.
Regarding expenses of confinement, the major obstacle is not the law, but producing evidence of expense.
Authority for recovery of the
medical expenses associated with the pregnancy previously incurred by the mother
is found in CRS 19-6-116(3), and jurisdiction rests exclusively under the
Uniform Parentage Act. In Re Custody of Garcia, 695 P.2d 774 (Colo.
App. 1984).
Under
CRS 19-4-116, the trial court may order the father to pay the reasonable
expenses of the mother's "pregnancy and confinement." S.F.E.,
In Interest of T.I.E., 981 P.2d 642, 647 (Colo. App. 1998). Where the
trial court apportioned these expenses between the parties according to their
respective gross incomes under CRS 19-4-116, the court of Appeals found no
error.
Copies
of canceled checks and former medical billing statements are good
evidence. If the person seeking reimbursement did not keep good records,
duplicate accounting statements can be requested from medical providers.
For any exotic or questionable medical procedure, it may be necessary to produce
expert testimony as the reasonableness of treatment.
The
law with respect to other prior health care expense issues is more complicated.
Relation
Back - Retroactive Child Support
Child support may
relate back to the date of the child's birth or any time subsequent thereto -
this is called retroactive child support or relation back. Issues can be
highly contested regarding whether the
court enters an order for support during a period of time prior to the order,
what period is covered, how much periodic support is ordered and terms of
repayment. Once a support order is entered, each
installment becomes a judgment the day it becomes due. The court may not
later modify the amount of support or deny the obligee any lawful remedy.
Child support can be
efficiently enforced. Refer to the
support
enforcement page of my primary website for additional information regarding income assignment
for current and arrearage child support, garnishment of
income or bank accounts and enforcement by contempt of court (jail).
The Department of Human Services through the local governmental
Child
Support Enforcement Unit (CSE) will seek reimbursement of the full amount
of public assistance, but is limited to the amount of any court support
order. CRS
19-4-118 If welfare benefits are currently being received, the obligor
(person paying support) should seek temporary support orders as soon as
possible to limit the amount of liability.
Deviation from Child Support
Amount Presumed Reasonable
Pursuant to Guideline Computations
The trial court may deviate from presumed amount of support in
CRS 14-10-115 according to the criteria in subsection (6) so long as it enters findings that allow an appellate court and the parties to discern the reasons for the deviation.
In Interest of D.R.V., 885 P.2d 351 (Colo. App. 1994). If the record
( paternity case) reflects the trial court
considered the relevant factors for determination of support, CRS 14-10-115,
(divorce statute) there is no abuse of discretion. Garcia, supra,
In re Marriage of Krise, 660 P.2d 920 (Colo. App. 1983).
Statutory Interest
Statutory interest on child support is 12% per
annum from the date each installment was due. CRS
14-14-106, CRS 5-12-101. Once an order has entered,
obligee (person receiving child
support) has a right to statutory interest. If an obligor
defaults on a child support installment after entry of order, obligee is
entitled to statutory interest. If the court relates back in an
order and ,
at issue may be whether the obligee is entitled to statutory interest at 12% per annum on retroactive
support arrearages.
Tax
Considerations and Exemptions
Child
support is not taxable income or deductible.
The court may allocate daycare federal tax
credit.
The
court may allocate the federal income tax dependency exemption, and further may
order each parent to execute necessary forms declaring
that either such parent will not claim the children as dependents. CRS 14-10-115(14.5) -
guidelines (divorce), and CRS 19-4-129 (paternity) require the
court, unless otherwise agreed by the parties, to allocate the right to claim
dependent children for income tax purposes between the parties in proportion to
their contributions to the costs of raising the children.
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ALLOCATION OF
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The court previously decided legal custody (decision making),
physical child custody (where a child lived) and visitation ( the schedule upon
which the non-custodial parent was entitled to see a child) based upon the best
interest of the children. In effort to eliminate the idea that children are
items to be awarded in a divorce, terminology has changed. Custody and
visitation no longer exist in Colorado except as is required for tax
exemptions. CRS
14-10-131.7
Regarding allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time, the court
may enter temporary issues pursuant to CRS 19-4-111 and permanent orders
pursuant to CRS 19-4-116. Determination is to be made in accordance with
the criteria set forth in the Uniform Dissolution of Marriage Act.
Allocation of parental
responsibilities CRS
14-10-124
Decision making for children
remains an issue for the court to rule upon. That is now called allocation of
parental responsibilities. The court addresses day to day decision making, as
well as major decisions such as religion, medical care, education and general
welfare issue which affect a child.
Major decision making may be
ordered jointly, or by the parent with whom the child primarily resides.
Provision is also made for future dispute resolution, such as submission to
mediation,
arbitration, or request for the court to review the disputes.
The
court may order joint decision making without agreement of the parties, even over
each parties' objection.
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Parenting time
CRS
14-10-124
Parenting time encompasses
court rulings regarding the children's primary residence and upon what
schedule the other parent will have the children physically present with him
or her. The court continues to use the best interest of the child as the
polestar. CRS
14-10-123.4
More emphasis is now placed
on each parent assisting with children's obligations, such as homework, taking
the children to activities, etc. If possible, children should have liberal
access to each parent - children have a right to know and love each
parent. Under
limited circumstances, parenting time may be restricted or denied by the court
if in a child's best interest.
The court will consider
denial of or failure to exercise parenting time in ruling upon decision
making, primary physical residence and parenting time.
Parenting time
enforcement. CRS
14-10.5-104 The court may utilize:
Mediation
- both voluntary or
mandatory
Family counseling
Parental education
Development of parenting
plans, including monitored parenting time, supervised parenting
time, or neutral drop-off and pickup locations
Court ordered parenting time
guidelines
Alternative arrangements with respect to parental
responsibilities
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Access to records.
CRS
14-10-123.8 Access to information pertaining to a minor child, including but not limited to medical, dental, and school records, shall not be denied to any party allocated parental responsibilities, unless otherwise ordered by the court for good cause shown.
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"Custody battle" with
significant other or extended family member.
If you are a caretaking
parent, be aware of the possibility of a "custody fight" if you:
permit your boyfriend
or girlfriend to cohabitate for 6 months or longer
place your child(ren)
with family a family member or close friend for 6 months or longer
Similar to the annulment statute,
there has been great interest in this particular statute.
Colorado Revised Statutes (CRS) are available
on-line (refer to link) or are available in
the
local law library
supported by the
El
Paso County Bar Association - you may ask a librarian for
assistance in locating statute books.
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Motion to modify - affidavit
required.
A party seeking to modify a former
order regarding custody or allocation parental responsibilities must submit an
affidavit with the motion to modify. Failure to do so will result in
dismissal. CRS 14-10-132
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PREPARATION FOR COURT
PROCEEDINGS
REGARDING CHILDREN
Terminology sometimes
appears confusing, however it may not seem so difficult when you understand
the court will be ordering how major decisions affecting children will be
made, and deciding separately who will be the primary caretaker for the
children.
Obtain a spiral notebook and
keep brief notes regarding matters pertaining to the children, both agreements
and disputes. Date each entry, state only facts, not opinions, and make each
entry brief. Keep a record of parenting time requests, including dates &
times, parenting time exercised, and relevant facts. Your notes may be later
used to refresh your recollection on the witness stand and will be used by the
lawyer to prepare for hearings. With notes, you may effectively rebut false
claims of your spouse and you will have a record to build your case.
Advise the attorney not only
of favorable circumstances, but of facts which may be harmful to your case.
Allowing your attorney to be educated by opposing counsel in court is very
damaging to your case.
If you and the opposing parent are
contemplating a "custody battle," seriously consider the matter in
light of the effect it may have on your children. Parental
responsibilities allocation evaluation is likely
and a guardian ad litem or special advocate may be appointed by the court to represent the
best interests of your child(ren). You must be prepared to commit substantial
financial resources.
Each party will be required
to submit a written, detailed parenting plan.
In every case where children are involved, this attorney recommends you
consult a psychiatrist, psychologist or licensed social worker to learn more
about what impact your separation will have on the children, and how to
effectively cope. Advance knowledge will likely assist you in neutralizing
negative circumstances and minimizing injury to your children.
Permanent separation is a major life
event, as is death of a loved one. Do not feel stigmatized by seeking
professional advice. The fact you are inquiring into legal remedies
indicates your relationship is in serous trouble, and perhaps your entire family
structure has disintegrated or failed to materialize. Consulting a mental health professional is quite likely the best
course of action you could take at this point. If the children are
exhibiting trauma or unusual behavior, by all means immediately consult a
mental health professional. As a governmentally subsidized agency,
Pikes
Peak Mental Heath bills fees on a sliding scale based upon income.
Many private therapists or counselors are also located in town. You may not desire extended therapy, however don't hesitate to at least
touch base, regardless of whether or not you have children.
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PATERNITY - LEGAL PARENTAGE
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PROPERTY
AND RESIDENCE
E.T. LEAVE HOME
( and don't bother to call or you go to jail )
The court in a
domestic
abuse restraining order case or paternity case has jurisdiction (power) to and will address the issue
of one party vacating a common residence. If a
domestic
abuse restraining order enters, the restrained person must
vacate the common residence immediately upon service of the temporary
restraining order. The restrained person, when accompanied by a law
enforcement officer, may remove a few necessary
personal
effects necessary to survive pending final orders hearing. Refer
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Property - Married Persons
a. Real Property. If
the parties are married (including
common
law marriage), either party may file for
dissolution
of marriage,
legal separation
and in that case either party may request an order
for
exclusive
possession of the family residence at
temporary orders hearing and may request sale or other disposition at
final orders hearing.
One party may be required to wait
until final orders hearing to divest the other party of possession. A
mandatory
waiting period of 90 days exists in dissolution of marriage;
finalization may take several months. If a divorce is coming, the excluded
party is well advised to commence the dissolution of marriage proceedings and
timely pursue the case to final orders.
b. Personal property is similar. Usage of some may personal property may be
obtained at temporary orders hearing in a dissolution of marriage, but full
division
will await final orders hearing.
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Property - Unmarried Persons
Property is a totally different circumstance if
the parties are not married.
a. Jurisdiction
1. The county court
in a domestic abuse restraining order action does not have jurisdiction to order possession
or division of real property or personal property.
2. The juvenile court
in a paternity action does not have jurisdiction to order possession or division
of real property or personal property.
b. Shared Residence
1. Residence owned by party in possession. If the residence
is owned by the party in possession, no dispute exists with respect to
possession. Possession follows ownership.
2. Residence owned by excluded party. If the restrained person owns the residence and the protected person has no
ownership claim (shack job), the protected person may initiate a separate forcible entry
and detainer lawsuit pursuant to CRS 13-40-101, et. seq.. However, the
restrained person shall not be entitled to return to the residence until such time as a valid writ of restitution is executed, filed with the court issuing the restraining order, and the restraining order is modified accordingly.
CRS 13-14-102(8)(c) Put another way - if the restrained person has sole
ownership of the residence, the protected person may have exclusive use of the home.
The restrained owner is not permitted back into his / her home until an
FED order has entered and the temporary or permanent restraining order has been
modified. What a bummer.
3. Paternity - no restraining orders & non-owning party refuses to
leave. If the non-owning party refuses to leave, but has no
restraining order granting possessory interest, the owning party still has a
problem. It is not lawful to bodily eject your soon to be former partner -
harassment or assault charges may be brought for unlawful touching.
Forcible entry and detainer (FED) lawsuit is the answer.
4. Excluded party made contributions toward residence. If the
excluded party without ownership interest (title) contributed to the
purchase or debt amortization of the property and claims some entitlement and the parties are unable to
agree upon division, a separate lawsuit should be brought in District Court -
unjust enrichment, joint venture or analogous to dissolution of a partnership
seeking distribution of partnership assets. This type of lawsuit is
founded in contract law, and the excluded party must overcome a foreseeable
argument that contributions constituted rent or a completed gift.
5. Jointly owned residence. Similar to ¶(b)(4), if the parties are unable to
agree upon division, a separate lawsuit should be brought in District Court -
unjust enrichment, joint venture or analogous to dissolution of a partnership
seeking distribution of partnership assets. This type of lawsuit is
founded in contract law.
c. Personal Property,
Including Motor Vehicles
1. Separate property divided. If each party has received his
/ her personal property, no dispute exists with respect to possession.
Possession follows ownership.
2. Separate property retained by other party. If the personal
property has not been divided:
a. Communications
1. The restrained person may not contact the protected person for any
reason, including property distribution. Counsel may do so. If
restraining orders are not in issue, the parties may communicate direct, but do
so in a public place which affords some degree of privacy.
2. If the protected person contacts the restrained person for any reason,
including property distribution, the protected person risks invalidating the
restraining order or creating a defense to contempt or prosecution.
Counsel may contact the restrained person.
b. If the other party is unwilling to make distribution of personal
property claimed by the other, the person claiming ownership may initiate a
separate replevin or trover lawsuit pursuant to C.R.Civ.P. 104, 404, CRS
13-6-403, CRS 13-16-106, CRS 13-80-101. Trover for a horse. However, the
restrained person shall not be entitled to possession of the property until a
the sheriff has executed upon a valid replevin order. Put another way - if
one party will not give the separately owned personal to the rightful owner,
separate lawsuit is required to recover the disputed property or money
damages. What messes people can create.
3. Non-owning party made contributions toward personal property.
If the party without ownership interest (title) or without possession of
untitled property contributed to the
purchase or debt amortization of the property and claims some entitlement, and
if the parties are unable to
agree upon division, a separate lawsuit should be brought in District Court -
unjust enrichment, joint venture or analogous to dissolution of a partnership
seeking distribution of partnership assets. This type of lawsuit is
founded in contract law, and the non-owning or non-possessing party must
overcome a foreseeable argument that contributions constituted rent or a
completed gift.
4. Jointly owned personal property. Similar to ¶(c)(3),
if the parties are unable to
agree upon division, a separate lawsuit should be brought in District Court -
unjust enrichment, joint venture or analogous to dissolution of a partnership
seeking distribution of partnership assets. This type of lawsuit is
founded in contract law.
a. If the parties cohabitated
and personal property has not been divided, do so immediately.
b. When you make division of your personal property,
divide as much as possible, and make one move. Disagreements are caused when one
of you continually contacts the other requesting minor items of personal
property. Identify those items on which you disagree; your attorney will
negotiate or a court hearing may be necessary. The goal is to identify &
minimize those items which are contested. Don't sweat the small stuff; be
flexible without giving up important matters. If you take petty personal
property issues to hearing in a separate civil case, a judge could easily order
all property to one party or the other, or could order property sold at public auction and division of proceeds.
Remember, attorney's fees and litigation costs may exceed the value of the
property.
d.
Unmarried Cohabitation. It is this attorney's understanding absent
common
law marriage or statutory marriage (judge or clergy ceremony) or contribution and unjust
enrichment, neither party acquires any right in or to property of the other
unless by contract (express or implied) which would be scrutinized as under
standards of Salzman v. Bachbrach, supra. Colorado
does not have "marital property or community property" law with
reference to mere cohabitation by unmarried persons.
See Salzman v. Bachbrach, 996 P.2d 1263
(Colo. 2000)
Where past, present, and future sexual relations were the sole consideration
for the original delivery of a thing of value, the contract mirrors a contract
for prostitution which is immoral, unlawful and void. Neither law nor
equity will aid either to enforce, revoke or rescind. Id at 1266
- 1267.
Non-married cohabitating couples
may legally contract with each other so long as sexual relations are merely
incidental to the agreement. Couples may ask a court for assistance, in
law or in equity, to enforce such agreements. Id at 1267
Cohabitation and sexual relations
alone do not suspend contract and equity principles. We do caution, however,
that mere cohabitation does not trigger any marital rights. A court
should not decline to provide relief to parties in dispute merely because
their dispute arose in relationship to cohabitation. Rather, the court should
determine as with any other parties whether general contract laws and
equitable rules apply. Where sexual relations with the other
cohabitating partner are not the sole motivation, cohabitation does not bar
suit in equity. Id at 1268 - 1269
e. Untangle Co-Mingled Finances. If you co-mingled
your finances, advice in divorce cases still stands - close all joint
accounts and separate your finances as best as possible without separate lawsuit
court intervention.
1. Close
all joint charge accounts immediately. Notify creditors by certified mail
that you will no longer be responsible for future debt incurred by the other
parent. Send creditors one-half of the charge card of the parent who will no
longer have charge privileges, or close the account entirely if need be. This
includes utilities and checking accounts as the other parent may write bad checks.
Closing joint liabilities is simply good business and eliminates possible
disagreement later. It may be uncomfortable to discuss this with the other
parent immediately. You may believe excessive charging to be out of character for
the other parent. You may fear the finality this seems to bring. Do it anyway &
do it now - attorneys see this problem frequently. Close all joint accounts
immediately. ...twice written intentionally.
2. Close all joint savings accounts,
and divide the proceeds fairly. If you anticipate problems, transfer the
proceeds to a savings account in your name only, and hold (not spend) the
proceeds until final disposition can be made. It is easier to give the money
to the other parent than to ask for it back. This office recommends immediately
after you have withdrawn the money, you convert the new savings account to
an account where withdrawal is possible only upon the signature of both you
and the other parent; check with your bank for availability. Protect your
savings.
f.
Physical Separation. If
cohabitating, there is no pleasant or enjoyable way to physically separate. If necessary,
either party
may hire an off duty police officer to be present and keep the peace while
household goods are being physically moved. You may attempt to hire an off duty
law enforcement officer by calling the
Colorado Springs Police
Department or the
El Paso County Sheriff's
Office. No officer will
participate in deciding who may take or keep individual items, the officer will merely
keep the peace. Plan on $50+ minimum. To provide for an efficient and
rapid move, make certain sufficient manpower, truck space,
dollies, pads, etc. have been arranged in advance.
g. Common Sense. Attorney's fees and
costs may exceed the value of the property. Also, in the event of property
litigation, dispute between the parties is not over. Peace is benefit
in and of itself. Sometimes it is appropriate to write off an asset or
loss, and chalk it up as a bad experience. Bear in mind, you chose to
enter into the relationship.
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Spousal maintenance does not exist in Colorado unless the parties were married
by
common law marriage
or statutory marriage (judge or clergy ceremony). "Palimony" or
maintenance support between non married cohabitating partners is therefore
unavailable in a paternity action. If the parties cohabitated, there is a
legal theory for partner support based in contract law. The landmark case is Marvin v. Marvin, 18 Cal.3d 660 (1976).
While the actor Lee Marvin's case has been cited in two Colorado cases - Salzman
v. Bachbrach, 996 P.2d 1263, 1267-1268 (Colo. 2000) (see property above) and
In
re Estate of Lewis, 652 P.2d 1106, 1108 (Colo. App. 1982), "palimony"
has not been adopted in Colorado to this attorney's knowledge.
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OTHER POTENTIAL
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Advice has been requested on multiple occasions
from the current wife of a man named as Respondent in a paternity case. In
addition to being upset about an extra-marital sexual affair of which she may
not have had knowledge, the wives have expressed concern about the impact of
paternity support payments upon the family's lifestyle and ability to meet the
financial needs of their marital children. Paternity litigation can have
significant impact upon one's marriage, and can result in divorce proceedings
being initiated by the current wife. If you have questions regarding
dissolution of marriage, refer to my primary website
dissolution
of marriage /
legal separation
page.
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In my primary website
divorce
page I have included a brief synopsis of potential civil and criminal
consequences and litigation which may become relevant to family law
litigants. Also included are links to counseling, safe house & other
resources. Emotions may run high, particularly at commencement of
paternity litigation. It's worth a few minutes to learn a little of
potential pitfalls - refer to the
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For a more detailed information regarding domestic abuse civil restraining orders or
domestic violence criminal matters, refer to one of the below links.
a.
Civil
Restraining Orders - information pertaining to domestic abuse
restraining orders
b.
Domestic Violence Information - information pertaining to defense of
domestic violence
charges
c.
Domestic Violence Criminal Charges - frequently charged domestic violence
crimes
d.
Domestic Violence Sentencing Summary
e.
Domestic
Violence & Anger Management Treatment Agencies
Local Class List
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Spying on the
spouse or significant other. Factual basis for
felony
stalking or
domestic
abuse restraining order is not limited to physical acts. Electronic bugging devices or
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People v. Sullivan, 53 P.3d 1181 (Colo.App.
2002)
felony stalking conviction upheld for electronic GPS device on
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felony stalking,
(whether or not an intimate relationship, breakup,
divorce,
separation,
paternity allegation or
domestic abuse restraining order litigation), the
Sullivan rationale may likely extend to
surreptitious installation and monitoring of a computer program which
repeatedly reports computer usage or internet activity to another.
(computer spyware tracking programs installed without the user's knowledge
or consent). Publishing attorney has not had occasion to defend a
computer spyware felony stalking case, nor is he aware of any
specific case in which such criminal charges have been initiated.
Although
Sullivan may be a harbinger, current
statutory language does not specifically identify surreptitious spyware
installation or monitoring as prohibited conduct, and may not be sufficient
to support a felony stalking conviction. Additional legal research would be
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Web beacons, aka web bugs, have become standard practice in many
commercial websites, including reputable companies. Web bugs are
installed surreptitiously without the user's knowledge or consent and
without benefit of court order - court scrutiny. Web bugs may
track computer usage or internet activity. Commercial software is
available to block or find and delete web bugs which are considered by
many in the computer industry to be spyware.
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An attorney naturally queries the difference between tracking spyware
surreptitiously installed by a commercial enterprise and tracking
spyware surreptitiously installed to track computer or internet activity
of someone with whom the installing person (alleged stalker) has had a
continuing relationship. Put another way, is the enabling language
of
CRS
18-9-111(4)(a)
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Generally speaking, the
maxim applies which William Shakespeare set forth in Merchant of Venice:
"truth will come to light... at the length truth
will out" which has come to be known as:
"over time, the truth will out"
Be patient, not a criminal law case of
first impression or test case like
Sullivan.
If there is a need to quickly determine facts, hire a reputable
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1181 (Colo.App. 2002)
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Prior to and during
litigation proceedings, be respectful of joint property or marital
property.
This would be particularly applicable regarding
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Domestic abuse retraining order. If facts support a
criminal conviction, facts will support a domestic abuse restraining
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Child Abuse. By law, child abuse
reported to medical, therapy, social work or school professionals must be
reported by them to DHS or law enforcement. Based upon the statutory attorney-client
privilege, an attorney may not disclose
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Child abuse or domestic abuse will not be tolerated by the courts. By law prior criminal charges, abuse injunctive
proceedings and child abuse dependency and neglect proceedings must be
disclosed in writing to the judge at the time of filing the divorce or
paternity action. The DHS maintains a statewide
identification central registry of all reported child abuse. The Colorado
Bureau of Investigation (CBI) maintains a statewide central registry
identifying domestic abusers (civil injunctions and criminal charges).
These records have major impact upon a
person's future. Injury or criminal charges may result from actions.
Use reason, logic and self-control when
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It
is advisable for everyone who undergoes breakup of a
significant relationship to attend a recovery workshop. Attendance
may likely assist you with grief and recovery. Call for details on class
dates and times. I understand
recovery workshops are also offered by the Catholic Church and Lutheran
Church. Others likely exist which are not listed here. To my understanding, classes are free or inexpensive and
the major focus is upon healing grief, not religion. All it takes is one night a week for about 8 weeks.
Who
knows, even if initially you don't think it is worthwhile, you may learn
something.
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Alcoholism or drug addiction can occur at any age, socio-economic background,
race or religion. Think it can't happen to you or a loved one? - think again. As with other
illnesses, dependency doesn't care who are, what you are, how old you are, or
where you come from. If client, loved one or opposing parent has an alcohol or drug problem, he /
she should also
immediately commence attending at least 1 AA
or NA meeting per week. Address the problem and get it under control before it has a chance to destroy
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INDEPENDENT SERVICE PROVIDERS |
Where relevant, I utilize
the services of independent professionals. Rates of independent
providers of professional services change periodically and billings are not
controlled by counsel.
If retained by counsel as an
agent of the attorney, such independent service providers are bound by the
attorney-client privilege. If retained privately by the client, no such
agency or confidentiality exists.
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PATERNITY - LEGAL PARENTAGE
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Probably time to loosen the pocket book and
hire a family law attorney.
Allocation of parental
responsibility, parenting time, expenses of confinement, and
retroactive and/or current child support frequently have long term
consequences, and can have significant impact upon children as well as
finances. You need not retain my services, but hire counsel.
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Client Ambivalence |
It is normal for persons
contemplating a paternity action to vacillate between wanting to
commence the lawsuit, delay out of concern for parental responsibilities
(custody) orders or potential child support financial consequences or
perhaps revive the relationship.
An attorney's job is to prepare &
file pleadings, then pursue the lawsuit to final orders. A lawyer is not a relationship counselor.
Please make
the determination to file a paternity lawsuit and see the case
through to final orders before calling. Additionally, while the attorney will
assist in assessing the viability of client's goals, before contacting
an attorney each prospective client should have a basic plan - a common
sense or realistic "wish list."
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PATERNITY - LEGAL PARENTAGE
FAMILY LAW
PRACTICALITIES |
I am a single parent who has raised his daughter alone since infancy. I've
walked the mile at 3 a.m. and am familiar with single parenting issues
from tender years through teens. It is
irrelevant whether an attorney's client is mother or father, petitioner or
respondent. I am most willing to assist with a just and fair resolution of
your paternity issues. However, I will not provide representation in legal
proceedings where the client's goal is to punish the other parent as a vendetta.
Family law cases should commence seeking the ballpark of
reason - otherwise known as a win-win solution as best as can be achieved under
the circumstances. Although that should be the first step, sometimes it is not possible. If the opposing party is
unreasonable or litigation is otherwise required, then
it's time to litigate. That means case preparation - both factual and
legal
research to effectively present the client's case to the court. The
magistrate's or judge's polestars will be the best interest of the children and
fundamental fairness under the facts and circumstances. Mere lip service
to these principles is not sufficient, but reasonable or legitimate requests for
relief are likely to be granted in court orders.
The more complex the case or as justiciable issues increase,
fees
and
costs
increase. This is a reality no matter which attorney a prospective client
hires. You are welcome to review
Alternatives
to Private Counsel - Other Options and visit with any number of
attorneys. In family law matters, it is especially important that the
client be comfortable from the outset with the attorney he or she retains and
understand the attorney's
billing
structure.
At the time of the first
visit, a prospective client will be quoted
hourly attorney fees and estimated costs. The
hourly fee and initial trust deposit quotes will
be honored for a period of seven (7) days, after which quotes are subject to change
without notice if this office has not been retained. Attorney is a sole
practitioner with need to manage his caseload. Pending proposed client
acceptance and payment, retainer agreement proposals are subject to
withdrawal. Attorney reserves the right to decline any case.
Included in attorney's primary website is a
web page devoted to clear definition & understanding of free
first
consultation, fees and costs, retainer agreement and terms of
representation. Additional
information regarding fees & costs may be found via the links
following potential quotes.
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POTENTIAL
FEE QUOTE
PATERNITY
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This office bills hourly fees only in family law cases. Time expended determines fees. Due to the
fact I can not predict behavior of parties who were in a previous relationship
and may be emotional, I do not offer flat fees and do not offer contingency
(percentage) fees regarding support enforcement.
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Prior to
commencement of representation, the attorney will quote the amount
requested as a trust deposit against which attorney's fees and costs may
be billed. The requested trust deposit will be dependent upon the
facts and circumstances of your case.
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for any large cost expense. Final expenditure may run less or
client
may periodically be asked for additional amounts to be deposited to trust if
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will be provided with a trust accounting and itemized
billing statement when there has been activity on the account. At the end of
each case, a detailed accounting summary is provided and
remaining trust proceeds are refunded. |
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COSTS
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PARTIAL LIST OF POTENTIAL
COSTS
out of pocket costs are the responsibility of the
client |
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link to Colorado
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current costs
information published by state |
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litigation costs
fluctuate - below estimates may be obsolete
fees & costs assessed by courts or third party
providers are not within attorney control |
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Petitioner |
Respondent |
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Court
filing fees - initial proceedings: |
$159.00 |
n/a |
| Respondent - paternity |
n/a |
$ 90.00 |
| Registration of Foreign Decree -
Paternity, Custody or Divorce |
$151.00 |
$151.00 |
| Outgoing Interstate
Enforcement |
$ 00.00 |
n/a |
| Petition for Allocation of
Parental Responsibilities |
$186.00 + $40 Class = $226.00 |
$ 90.00 |
| Intervenor |
Third Party Filing |
$145.00 |
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Motion to modify - 60 days or more after initial order |
$ 95.00 |
$ 95.00 |
ADR - Alternate Dispute
Resolution
Mediation
(fee per party) |
$100.00 minimum |
$100.00 minimum |
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Colorado |
$ 35.00 |
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Other states |
each set own fees |
each set own fees |
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Background search - cost per
parent search |
Price |
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| DMV
out of
state driving record - per parent searched |
each set own fees |
each set own fees |
Local
court
archive records
search fee
may be more or less |
$ 10.00 |
$ 10.00 |
| Copy expense at
courthouse - files (estimate - may vary) |
$ 10.00 |
$ 10.00 |
On-line
legal
research
depends upon research issues, if any |
Varies |
Varies |
Private
investigator
initial retainer - if relevant -
Rivera
Investigations utilized
variable - missing birth parent |
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$______ |
Process service
expense
depends upon location of birth parent |
$______ |
$______ |
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Travel
time and expenses if case outside Colorado Springs |
Rates |
Rates |
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partial paternity
support enforcement out of pocket expenses
Judgment expenses would be relevant in the event the
court enters a support order
relating back to birth or other time prior to date
of the order. |
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Court
- filing fee - judgment or contempt enforcement |
| 95.00 |
Court
- Filing Fee - motion to
Modify - 60 days or more after initial order |
| 35.00 |
Court
- writ of execution |
| 35.00 |
Court
- writ of garnishment |
| 55.00 |
Court
- writ of attachment |
| 20.00 |
Court
- transcript of judgment |
| 15.00 |
Court
- satisfaction of judgment eertificate |
| 15.00 |
Court
- certification -
per document |
| 15.00 |
Court
- exemplification |
| 0.75 |
Court
- copy cost per
page |
| 50.00 |
Court
- judgment creditor docket fee - |
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Creditor's Examination or Creditor's Interrogatories |
| 10.00 |
Court
- judgment debtor fee - judgment $ 5,000 - $10,000 |
| 30.00 |
Court
- judgment debtor fee - judgment $10,000 - $20,000 |
| 50.00 |
Court
- judgment debtor fee - judgment $20,000 - $30,000 |
| 90.00 |
Court
- judgment debtor fee - judgment $30,000 - $50,000 |
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Court
- judgment debtor fee - judgment $50,000 and over |
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Clerk and Recorder
- filing fee -
per page |
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CAVEAT:
Not all above costs will be relevant to any given case, and additional
expenses not identified may be incurred in any individual case. Costs
quoted are subject to change by independent providers; actual costs paid will
be billed. limited
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GENERAL CONSIDERATIONS
INITIAL PATERNITY CASE OR POST DECREE |
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Fees and costs are not billed until incurred, however in the event
of dismissal by client or opposing parent, earned fees and expended costs will not be
refunded. Bear in mind, when one parent opens Pandora's Box, other
issues will also likely become subject to litigation. Client should be certain he
* she actually desires an order regarding legal parentage, child support,
allocation of parental responsibility (custody), parenting time (visitation) and
the child's lawful surname
before commencing paternity litigation.
To a large degree, the conduct of
client and the opposing parent and the ability or
inability to agree will determine the final amount of fees and costs. No two
cases are the same. Resolving emotions in counseling or elsewhere and
removing emotions from litigation will significantly reduce legal expenses.
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POTENTIAL
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POTENTIAL
FEE QUOTE
PATERNITY
- LEGAL PARENTAGE
POST DECREE -
MODIFICATION |
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This office bills hourly fees only in family law cases. Time
expended
determines fees. Due to the fact I can not predict behavior of parties
who were in a previous relationship and may be emotional, I do not offer flat
fees or contingency (percentage) fees regarding paternity modification or support
enforcement.
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Prior
to commencement of representation, the attorney will quote the amount requested
as a trust deposit against which attorney's fees and costs may be billed.
The requested trust deposit will be dependent upon the facts and circumstances
of your post decree case. Because modification can cover such a
wide range of issues, it is not possible to provide a blind common
trust
deposit request. That could only be quoted after consultation.
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for any large cost expense. Final expenditure may run less or
client
may periodically be asked for additional amounts to be deposited to trust if
fees and costs will exceed previous deposits. |
Client
will be provided with a trust accounting and itemized
billing statement when there has been activity on the account. At the end of
each case, a detailed accounting summary is provided and
remaining trust proceeds are refunded. |
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trust
deposit for anticipated fees & costs is due when
retained |
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attorney does not accept installment payments |
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regular billings are
scheduled on the 1st and 15th
payment not received
as agreed = representation withdrawn |
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Out of pocket expenses (costs) are the responsibility of the client - refer to initial
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CAVEAT:
Not all above costs will be relevant to any given case, and additional
expenses not identified may be incurred in any individual case. Costs
quoted are subject to change by independent providers; actual costs paid will
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A
domestic
abuse restraining orders hearing may be relevant. The suit for
PRO
may have been commenced in the divorce action, or may have been
commenced in a separate county court lawsuit. Either way, preparation time
will be necessitated. Fees will be billed upon hourly fees along with PRO
case
costs, and a prior
trust
deposit will be requested.
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Cheer up. Life gets
better. 
Thank you for considering my
services; I appreciate your inquiry.
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ALTERNATIVES |
FIND
A LAWYER |
if
you are seeking the below
please refer to above links for helpful information |
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sole practitioner
attorney does not accept these matters |
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a. a pro-bono (free) lawyer
b. an attorney who may take
lower fees - economic hardship
c. an attorney who may take installment payments |
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MID-LITIGATION
REPRESENTATION
alternatives and find a
lawyer links provided as a courtesy
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Attorney
Policies
Litigant Pro Se - Attempt to
Prepare or Defend Own Family Law Case |
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Adequate Time. If sufficient time exists to adequately prepare your
family law case or
defense and if prospective client approves this
attorney's fees and costs structure, attorney will
likely accept representation. This shall
not constitute an offer of representation; attorney and
prospective client retain discretion through
first
consultation. |
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Insufficient Time. If you've waited until the eleventh hour and there is not
sufficient time to adequately prepare your case or defense before a contested
court proceeding, please do not call. I decline. |
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Limited Assistance.
Please do not call requesting instruction, directions, legal theory,
forms completion or limited document drafting, partial representation, or an explanation of
applicable law to assist you in preparation or defense of your own case. I decline. |
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Attorney
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Representation
by Previous Attorney
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Current Attorney.
Until an order has entered withdrawing representation by an
attorney, an ethical rule violation exists if counsel
knowingly speaks to another attorney's client without current
attorney's consent. This ethical rule governs all
attorneys. Please do not call until after
you have terminated representation by a former attorney.
After
other counsel's withdrawal it may take significant effort for the the new attorney to "catch up."
Please be aware fees and costs will be associated with procuring the court
file and coming up to speed in the case. |
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Adequate Time.
If prospective client terminates employment of the
former attorney, if sufficient time exists to adequately prepare your
family law case, and if prospective client approves this
attorney's fees and costs structure, attorney will
likely accept representation. This shall
not constitute an offer of representation; attorney and
prospective client retain discretion through
first
consultation. |
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3.
Insufficient Time.
If you've waited until the eleventh hour and there is
not sufficient time to adequately prepare your case or
defense before a contested court proceeding, please do
not call. I decline. |
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Second Opinion.
I will not arm chair quarterback another
attorney's case preparation, trial tactics or theory of
the case. Please do not call for a second
opinion or an opinion regarding the competence
of preparation or defense in your current family
law case. I decline. |
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POST
DECREE MATTERS
alternatives and find a
lawyer links provided as a courtesy
former clients are naturally welcome to call anytime
regarding any legal matter |
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Post Decree Support, Property or Debt Enforcement. I accept most post decree requests
to
enforce a prior court order with respect to child support,
spousal maintenance, property or debt. This shall
not constitute an offer of representation; attorney and
prospective client retain discretion through
first
consultation. |
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Post Decree Modification.
I will consider post decree modification of support,
parental responsibility or parenting time or setting aside a
former property or debt order, however I do consider the amount
of time elapsed since last order, circumstances surrounding the
modification and number of prior attorneys retained by a
prospective client. This shall
not constitute an offer of representation; attorney and
prospective client retain discretion through
first
consultation. |
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Appeals. I
do not accept appellate matters unless I provided
representation at hearing or trial and am familiar with the facts,
testimony and exhibits received into evidence
and meritorious issues for appeal. That's been my policy for
years. Please do not
call or inquire regarding appellate matters if you are not a
former client. |
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ATTORNEY
TRADE AREA & TRAVEL
OUTSIDE EL PASO COUNTY
GEOGRAPHIC
DISTANCE
ECONOMIC CONSIDERATIONS |
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Colorado is a big state. Ease of internet access, email and toll free
phone doesn't change that fact. Due to frequency of court appearances, it is not economically justifiable for a client to pay travel time or
expenses beyond nearby counties. |
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his trade area due to cost considerations. |
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Attorney is very willing to travel
outside the Colorado Springs area to present or defend a case,
but please be aware travel time, mileage and expense would
apply. If you are from out of state or are unfamiliar with
Colorado geography, refer to the map to determine where
Colorado Springs
is located in relation to the county of your court case or
hearing. |
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CITIES / TOWNS |
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If travel is
necessary, a
trust deposit
would be required to cover anticipated travel time, mileage &
expenses. If it is not economically justifiable to retain
my services with travel, please contact counsel in the locale of
your case. |
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El Paso County |
Colorado Springs / Manitou
Springs / Fountain |
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Arapahoe County |
Littleton / Centennial /
Englewood |
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Douglas County |
Castle Rock |
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Elbert County |
Kiowa / Simla |
I welcome new cases. Intent is not to be harsh
or to discard potential new business, but to be practical. |
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Crowley County |
Ordway |
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Fremont County |
Canon City / Florence / Penrose |
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Pueblo County |
Pueblo |
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Teller County |
Cripple Creek / Woodland Park |
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PATERNITY
Selected Colorado Statutes |
| when to bring
paternity action
& who may bring |
| presumption of paternity |
paternity testing |
| trial to the court - not jury |
| child support
and expenses of confinement |
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RESEARCH FEE
$45.00 |
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downloaded, printed & text copied |
| cases on-line and available
upon telephone request |
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to call or email if you are a client or are seeking representation |
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FREE INITIAL CONSULTATION
not an offer for free legal advice - refer to link for terms
attorney is a sole practitioner with need to manage his caseload
attorney reserves the right to decline any legal matter |
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